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What Is a Loyalty Bind? The Hidden Reason Your Stepchild Pulls Away

What Is a Loyalty Bind? The Hidden Reason Your Stepchild Pulls Away

by Vicky Etherington | Sep 2, 2026 | Parenting

Your stepson laughed at your jokes all weekend. You played video games together, he asked you to make the pasta he likes, and for two whole days it felt like something was finally working. Then he came back from his mom’s house and wouldn’t look at you. If...
Stepparent Burnout: The Role No One Prepared You For

Stepparent Burnout: The Role No One Prepared You For

by Vicky Etherington | Apr 1, 2026 | Parenting, Stepmom Life

You wanted this life. You chose this person. You showed up for their kids. You reorganised your whole world to make room for a family that didn’t originally include you. And now, in a way you can’t quite explain to anyone, you’re running on empty....
Blending Eggs-cellently

Blending Eggs-cellently

by Julee Peterson | Mar 28, 2020 | Approaches, Blended Family Relations, Challenges, Parenting

Whether you’re stuck at home with a blended family or a first family – times like these can become trials of patience. Tempers can get short and attention can wan. For blended families finding ways to make home feel “normal” is difficult,...
Back To School = Back To Basics (Relationship Basics)

Back To School = Back To Basics (Relationship Basics)

by Julee Peterson | Aug 22, 2018 | Blended Family Relations, Challenges, Parenting

      Summer is a saucy schedule-less mess of chaos, fun, and boredom (per the kiddos) and is a hotbed for emotions.  When the kids are around it’s a free-for-all of family life and that makes it hard to be objective about how everyone is relating. Back to school is...
Good Enough Step-Parenting

Good Enough Step-Parenting

by Julee Peterson | Jun 24, 2018 | Approaches, Blended Family Relations, Parenting

It may seem counter-intuitive, but being less involved as a stepparent is more beneficial to your Blended Family than always trying to be a perfect parent. With that said, it doesn’t mean to disengage from the solid responsibilities of step-parenting and daily...
Happy Step-Mother’s Day

Happy Step-Mother’s Day

by Julee Peterson | Jun 28, 2017 | Blended Family Relations, Challenges, Parenting

I was going to write about Mother’s day and the discomfort that can come with it when you’re part of a blended family, but then I remembered a unexpected comment someone made to me one Mother’s Day about how I could never love my twin step-sons as I love my own child...
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