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Why Couples in Crisis Keep Having the Same Argument (And How to Break the Cycle)

Why Couples in Crisis Keep Having the Same Argument (And How to Break the Cycle)

by Vicky Etherington | Mar 6, 2026 | Marriage Matters

Many couples come into therapy convinced they have dozens of problems. But when we slow things down and look closely, something surprising often appears. It’s usually not dozens of arguments. It’s the same argument happening over and over again, just dressed in...
Blended Families: Understanding the Realities Behind the Statistics

Blended Families: Understanding the Realities Behind the Statistics

by Vicky Etherington | Jul 14, 2025 | Marriage Matters

When we picture “family life,” many of us still imagine the traditional nuclear family. But the reality is shifting – traditional families are no longer the norm. Today, blended families are increasingly common, making up an estimated 65% of families. With this...
Did You Marry The Wrong Person or is a Core Pattern Holding Your Relationship Back?

Did You Marry The Wrong Person or is a Core Pattern Holding Your Relationship Back?

by Julee Peterson | Apr 28, 2020 | Marriage Matters

Getting tired of the same issues that plague your relationship? Are you stuck in a pattern over the same fights? Its likely not because you “married the wrong person” but more than likely a cause of expectations based on how you were parented which result...
Holiday Communication – Deciphering the Puzzle

Holiday Communication – Deciphering the Puzzle

by Julee Peterson | Dec 25, 2017 | Approaches, Blended Family Relations, Marriage Matters

Christmas time brings many emotions and with those emotions come different communication styles. In a Blended Family this time of year can seem like a social skill puzzle that needs solving. Reconnecting or trying to make connections for the first time inside your...
Logistically Blending…

Logistically Blending…

by Julee Peterson | Mar 9, 2017 | Blended Family Relations, Challenges, Marriage Matters

In Blended Families there are many logistical situations which are less about logistics and more about emotion.  This creates a multitude of communication problems.  Learning to deal with logistics separately from the meanings and emotions underneath logistical...

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